ReflectionTake a moment to reflect on the relationships in your life. Is there one that comes to mind that has been causing some tension or frustration? Pick one relationship in your life right now — a spouse, a business partner, or teammate. Where have you quietly decided the other person is “wrong”? Where have you been writing off their ideas before considering them? What effort have you been putting in to understand where they might be coming from? Reflect on the past interactions you have had with this person, and now ask: what if they’re not wrong — just designed differently? Where is there room to give yourself space to be curious about their design? Find some time in the next week to ask them a question, or spend some time with them. Be willing to see how their design is similar – or different – to your own. What might you be able to accomplish together, better than individually?
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